Date 2015-09-26
Category ARTICLES
5. You’re a Feminist
In my previous article about the ugly truths of online dating, I shared a story about how my current partner would get rebuffed time and again, simply for stating that she was a feminist. She would have built rapport with multiple men. They would ask her what she studied and what she’s interested or into.
The second she mentioned she was a feminist (in passing, mind you)—guys stopped responding and sending her messages.
This didn’t stop me however; one of my best strategies for getting potential suitors to respond to your messages is to talk about something they’re emotionally connected to. I did this with her and viola, here we are today.
Moral of the story? Mention it, even if it pushes them away.
If there is something in your life which is important to you, have no shame in making it known. You’re on a quest to find someone who shares your values, beliefs and interests. What better way to cull the list of characters who would probably waste your time and keep you further away from achieving your goals.
You may find it surprising why a partner (or potential partner) has pulled away, yet you must always remember that not everything is in your control. Focus on what is in your control, and you will attract the type of people you deserve to have in your life.
This article was originally published at Meet Mindful. Reprinted with permission from the author.
