#20WomenReveal: What Women Secretly Want in Bed | Expo Inside

Plus, the anticipation of not knowing what’s going to happen next is hot. “S3x is about the rush, and when you have the same partner for a long time, the giddiness and nervousness fade,” Goldman says. “It’s great to take risks and bring back the passion.”

Don’t spring P0rn-style domination out of nowhere, though. It’s notevery woman’s thing. Start by finding out what turns her on—then pay close attention to her reactions during the deed.

Take it outside
“I love it when my boyfriend gets things started in places outside of the bedroom,” one woman confesses. “Those are some of the times I’ve been most turned on.”

Making a move in an unexpected location shows you’re attracted to her—not that you just want S3x, says Goldman. Plus, if you’re in public and can’t immediately do the deed, it builds massive tension for later on.

Your move: Kiss her in the kitchen, hold her tight at a party, or tell her exactly what you want to do to her while you’re in the elevator en route to your room.