#20WomenReveal: What Women Secretly Want in Bed | Expo Inside

Do not fear the D!ld0
Some women secretly want to incorporate more toys in the bedroom, according to our poll. “I love things like a powerful Clit0ris stimulator, or a string of beads that can gently find their way into my back door,” says one respondent.

Toys can be a quick route to climax for her, says Ian Kerner, a licensed marriage and family therapist in New York and author of She Comes First. “Many S3xual positions only hit the Clit0ris intermittently, or miss it altogether,” he says. “A vibrator can provide persistent, controlled, direct stimulation.”

Plus, it never hurts to try something new: Research shows that women who mix things up in the bedroom are more likely to climax.

Don’t race to the finish line
You already know women love foreplay—but several ladies tell us they want more of what comes before that. One even coined a term for it: Pre-foreplay.

“I’d happily let my boyfriend kiss my neck, shoulders, and stomach for hours, but he’s prone to moving to my lower erogenous zones within minutes,” says one woman.

Another respondent explains: “Instead of being like an instant on/off switch, S3x for me ideally involves some ‘pre-foreplay’ like cuddling to refocus, then lots of foreplay, then intercourse. I need more time to have an Org*sm.”

There’s no set timeframe for how long you should spend in each stage of S3x—just try to avoid making a beeline below the belt. Linger on her body parts you may sometimes neglect—her neck, earlobes, shoulders, and back—on your way downtown, says Kerner.